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  • A new take on the horror chain letter

    A new take on the horror chain letter

    Chain letters send shivers down my spine. Mostly because in the late ‘80s I was petrified I was going to die in 27 days if I didn’t send a letter to 15 of my friends within a week. Oh, the torture. Especially because I didn’t have 15 friends to send it to. I didn’t sleep on the 26th night and nearly died from exhaustion by the 27th.

    It got worse in the ‘90s when I was supposed to send a letter onto 12 friends in a bid to receive 36 pairs of underpants. I received one flimsy white g-string. In the early ‘90s I was in high school. And certainly not wearing g-strings.

    Fast forward to yesterday, when I opened the mailbox to see an envelope addressed to Ella. Ordinarily, Ella runs to the letterbox, discovers all the letters and eBay parcels are for me and becomes bitterly disappointed. At age five, to see her own name on a letter was just the best thing since email. Not that she’s ever received an email.

    Sticker Club Chain Letter

    This is what the Sticker Club chain letter said:

    Dear Ella
    Welcome to the Sticker Club! Please send one pack of stickers to the person listed in the #1 spot. Next, move my name to the #1 spot and put your name in the #2 spot. Then send the letter to six friends.
    If you cannot do this in 6 days, please let my mom (yes, it said mom) know because it is not fair to all the other kids who have participated so far. Within 2 weeks, you should receive 36 packs of stickers!! This is a lot of fun and exciting to see where your stickers come from. I also LOVE getting mail, don’t you?
    Thanks for participating!
    Your friend,
    PS. To the parents: Please take the time for this quick project. It is worth it to see the smile on your child’s face when they open their mail.
    To make it easier, we have enclosed a blank letter for you to copy. Before you write on it, make 12 copies. One for each of the six friends you are sending it to and six blanks to make it easy for them as it was for you. You only need to buy 1 pack of stickers and 7 stamps.

    I have to agree, getting mail really is the best. And to see the excitement on Ella’s face over just a letter, I can’t wait to see what happens when she receives 36 packs of stickers. That’s my kind of chain letter. Apart from the bit where I have to peel 36 packs of stickers off furniture, walls and carpet.

    Did you ever do chain letters as a kid? Has your child been involved in any?

  • Back to school tips from mums in the know

    Back to school tips from mums in the know

    Ella started Prep today. She packed all her little books and pencils into her giant school bag and then nearly toppled over trying to pick it up. It was like an ant trying to lift an elephant. Two guesses who ended up having to carry it!

    We then happily trotted off to school, until my “happy happy joy joy’’ mood was challenged after we circled the car park without luck. We decided to do a blocky in the hope a park might be free second time around. Still no luck. After the petrol light finally came on, I gave up and parked two blocks away. All of a sudden that bag got heavier.

    It was a long morning, but we made it on time. And Ella’s excitement hadn’t waned. She couldn’t wait to show me her new class, her bag locker, her tub – and the toilets. An essential part of any tour!

    Today is only day one – apparently I have 300-odd more jam sandwiches to make – but I can already see that adjusting from a three-day school week to five is going to make life interesting. So, to help stay a little organised, I’ve pulled together some fab tips from mums in the know. Hopefully they’ll help you too:

    Back to School tips

    Back to school tips:

    My eldest has a ‘Things to Pack’ card on the refrigerator. The check list encourages him to be independent and responsible, and is easy for any age to read the picture cues. Days of forgetting drink bottles, hats, news folders etc are no more, and he is definitely proud that he can achieve this for sure!
    Virginia

    Talk to your child/ren positively about school and about their school day. When you pick them up from school ask such questions as, ‘What was the favourite thing you did today?’ It helps to make your child’s experience at school positive and helps them to see the good in things!Cate

    Always make lunch the night before, you never know if you’re going to sleep in.
    Andrea

    Create a School Launch Pad at home. Dedicate a space at home where your kids can pack and unpack their bags and where you can get school stuff organised. Got the sports kit organised for tomorrow? Place it in the Launch Pad ready for pick up.Bubble

    With four little ones under seven,
    colour-coding is my answer to school day heaven.
    Each child knows which coloured items to gather
    And even dad can manage if I’m under the weather.
    With colour coded labels to match,
    We’d make it to school by 8.15am without a catch.
    Jessie

    I love putting little notes in my kids’ lunch boxes. Not every day but as a surprise every now and then.Billie

    This year we are trying out frozen foods. I have made a bunch of sandwiches, cakes, banana bread and muffins then put them all in the freezer.
    Jane

    My tip is to organise a ‘school info’ folder to put all the newsletters, documents, order forms etc into so they all stay together. Also get your partner/husband involved as much as possible so not everything is your responsibility or job! Leonie

    Our independent little Miss loves having clothes laid out the night before to put on “all by myself”. Undies may occasionally be on backwards – but no matter! A sticker chart for jobs done has also been great – and the Grobag Groclock to keep her resting/sleeping in bed until a reasonable hour in the morning has been a lifesaver!
    Simone

    My best tip is getting my children to change out of their school uniforms as soon as they get home (it doesn’t take long for them to get them dirty. April

    As a past teacher, my top school tip is to double name everything. Label clothing items especially with a name on the collar and then one on a seam or something.
    Anita

    Homemade, budget school lunch snack: popcorn. Buy a 99c bag of corn kernels and a packet of brown paper bags. Place a small amount of popcorn in a brown paper bag, fold over the open end of the bag and tape it down. Place it in a microwave oven for two minutes and it’s done. Just place it in a small reusable container. Kara

    Sit down on a Sunday with your child and help write and organise a menu for each day’s lunchbox. It helps get your child interested in eating healthy and creates a better relationship with food. Making it fun with food themes is also a great idea.
    Melissa

    To make school mornings easier to manage for us and the kids, we decided to create each child their own little cubby space that held all their school gear. There was a hanging space for their bag, hat and a space for their school shoes and all the bits and bobs. To make it even easier we created a daily checklist of items they needed to make sure was packed in their bag. Each child had a different library day, a different reader day, a different PE day etc so the daily checklist made things so much easier for me and for them. The check list also included things like Hat, lunch box, recess, drink etc. I found a visual display was much easier for them to remember what was needed and they also got ready in the mornings much quicker. Kaz

    In my house, school socks used to go missing! Each morning we would be almost ready to leave until my son would point out – ‘Mum, I can’t find any socks to wear!’ So to make things easier for my kids (and maintain my own sanity in the mornings) I have set up a little school area in my garage with hooks for the school bags and a big basket to hold all the clean school socks (and another for their school shoes).
    Michelle

    New stationary is fun, but definitely not cheap, But there’s ways around it, this tips one to keep! Each year empty bags, and review what comes home, Check ink levels for textas with a fine tooth comb, Throw out what is broken, and match up what still works, Saving money on old stationary is one of the perks! From the old, sets of pencils, crayons and textas should be made, Add only what’s missing, keep the rest for the next grade. Clean and label everything meant for school, It will all come home again, which is pretty cool! Elise

    What I don’t like, because it’s not very nice
    Is the possibility of the kids getting head lice!
    We’ve already experienced one infestation
    Oh, the nuisance, and sheer devastation!
    I try to maintain a positive perspective
    But even the products are often ineffective!
    Not to mention the time and cost
    And combing guarantees patience will be lost!
    So, my top tip for back to school would be
    Tie hair up, and use a defence spray with tea tree
    Hopefully this will be enough to stop the nits
    Because they really do give you the sh… sads!!!
    Michelle V

    I have bought Miss 6 and Miss 5 school shoes with Velcro so they can put their own shoes on in the morning. Over the holidays I have also taught them how to do each other’s hair. Tanya

    See more tips over on Retro Mummy’s blog.

    What are your tips for getting through the school year? How are you going so far this year?

  • Happy 5th birthday to my Princess Ella

    Happy 5th birthday to my Princess Ella

    Happy Birthday to our gorgeous girl Ella.

    Happy Birthday

    It’s hard to believe five years have passed since this photo.

    And that we now have this:

    Ella

    I can only shake my head…

    Love you, love you and a big Happy Birthday. x

  • Letter to my daughter: Happy 2nd birthday

    Letter to my daughter: Happy 2nd birthday

    To my darling Li’l Holly,

    Two years ago today you had me in a great deal of pain. You were on your way to greet the world and you were making sure we knew it.

    Two years on, you’re at “school’’ (child care) with your friends, probably telling them to “come on’’ as you run off to the sand pit. Or asking you carer if you can “go to toilet’’. You’ll sit on the toilet, ask for “Paper. Wipe’’, but not actually wee. You’ll repeat that about 10 times throughout the day – never actually doing a wee. But we answer your call. Next time, you might just succeed.

    You’ve grown into this incredibly smart little girl. Your language skills – how you can string together sentences – astounds me. A lot of this you’ve learnt from your sister. You’re both chatterboxes, fighting to be heard.

    Just so you know: we hear you.

    Both.

    While learning to walk took a little longer – and you still manage to fall flat on a regular basis – you can dance like no other two year old. I’m sure the hip wiggle chicken wing dance will catch on in the dance world one day.

    And you sing. Boy, can you sing. Like your big sister, you are destined for the stage. You know ever word to the entire High School Musical album. I think it’s time to start showing those videos.

    Combine all that with a smile that can melt any heart and we’re not sure how we got so lucky.

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    Happy birthday, beautiful.

    And one more thing before I go.
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    Love you, love you.

    Love Mum-Mum x

     

  • The day I thought I was having a heart attack – emergency plan for kids

    The day I thought I was having a heart attack – emergency plan for kids

    emergency plan

    Ella was just three the day I thought I was having a heart attack. Turns out, it was just a bit of indigestion. I may have slightly overreacted. It prompted me to write the post I don’t want to leave my daughters helpless about teaching Ella what to do in an emergency.

    I posted about it on Facebook and got a host of suggestions on ways to educate them, including the hilarious response from Barb who, after teaching her daughter to dial 000, decided to feign collapse. Instead of ringing for help, her daughter jumped up and down on her guts… not a good result

    Ella is now nearly five and learning to read, so I thought it was time we updated our emergency plan. If you can recall, the ringing Dad bit was easy. If Dad didn’t answer, then teaching her to ring 000 was fine too.

    It was this conversation that was worrying:

    Where do you live, Ella?
    Ella: “Hippopatmus Drv, Devonport (not our real street address, in case you were wondering!)’’. That’s fantastic, except we’re missing the all-important house number.
    “I don’t know.’’ After explaining that, yes, it’s seven, we tried again.
    “7 Hippopotamus Dve, Hobart’’. What? OK, so we’d just been to Hobart for a holiday. Let’s try again.
    “Devonport’’ OK, what about the rest of the address? Try again.
    “Um, I can’t remember.’’

    Challenging? Just slightly!

    While she knows our address well now, I’ve created an emergency plan with the crucial name and address on it incase (heaven forbid) she draws a plank under pressure. At least if she forgets her address or struggles reading the words on the plan, she can spell out the letters!

    Here’s a downloadable version of our plan  (with three options depending on your phone) to take your child through the process of:

    1. Finding the phone:

    2. Dialing the number

    3. Pressing the “call” button

    4. Speaking to dad/mum

    5. If dad/mum doesn’t answer, hang up and dial 000 and press “call”.

    6. Then, for those children that can read, having their name and address clearly written.

    Click the image or the links to download a copy of the one relevant to you, print and stick near your phone.

    Emergency with phone number first

    1. With the phone number, then the call button

    Emergency plan with call button first

    2. With the call button, then the phone number

    Emergency plan using coloured dots and programmed numbers
    3. With a coloured dot to signify programmed numbers (you can place coloured dots on the number son your phone).

    Other tips from readers:

    • Place important numbers on speed dial. For example, Dad is 1, Mum 2, Grandma 3, 000 is 4…
    • Again, use speed dial, but replace the number with coloured dots. Use Dad’s favourite colour.
    • Place the coloured dots on the numbers on the phone and pictures of each person on the fridge with their colour next to them.
    • Teach kids to call “triple zero’’, rather than “triple O”. With text messaging so big these days the young are trying to dial “666″ – ie the letter “o” button!
    • When teaching children their address, ask them questions as you’re driving home. For example, “now we’re turning in to our street. Which street do we live in?’’ and count down the houses till you get to your house. “What number do we live at?’’ and “what colour is our house?’’

    Have you taught your child what to do in an emergency? What are your tips?

  • How to foster a child’s imagination + Pink Poppy giveaway CLOSED

    How to foster a child’s imagination + Pink Poppy giveaway CLOSED

    It’s not uncommon to witness a little person, decked out in full dress up, stomping down the hallway. And you’ve never seen a nearly five-year-old work those heels quite like Ella does. I didn’t even know she had hips!

    It appears Holly is following suit with her love of dress ups. This week she had on a PJ top, trackie pants, a sheep beanie, a pair of bathers, a mermaid outfit and matching mermaid bag – all at once. She thought she looked utterly gorgeous – and that’s all that matters. (Here she is partly dressed in the above mentioned)

     Pink Poppy

    To listen to the stories they create when they’re “made up’’ just reinforces how important it is to foster their imaginations – and capture some hilarious photos for their 18th birthdays.

    Pink Poppy

    Then there were the tea parties. I think the novelty lies in being able to pour water from the sweet little teapot into the dainty tea cups and drink from them. Water mess inside I can deal with. And who can’t resist having these little tea cups, saucers, teapot, sugar bowl and milk jug sitting on the kitchen bench against the kettle.

    Pink Poppy

    For me, it’s been a big educational experience. Like, did you know purple tea is the best kind of tea? That Rebecca* did something naughty at school and had to sit in the corner? That Holly (nearly 2) can’t pour the tea because she’s not big enough (according to nearly five-year-old Ella who is chief tea pourer)?

    tea party

    The latest creative play comes courtesy of Pink Poppy, who supplied us with:

    Pink Poppy

    The beautiful tea set, dainty jewellery box with drawers, old-style bedside clock, snow globe, notepad with mermaid stickers and 

    Pink Poppy

    sweet turquoise mermaid outfit with matching bag,

    Each embraced the mermaid theme. What stands out for me is the quality of the products, how beautifully designed they are and how they’re all traditional toys that fully developing the girls’ imaginations. More importantly, the girls haven’t tired of them, like they do so many of their “gadget’’ toys.

    The site allows you to search by “theme” (buzzy bee, dancing, dinosaur, dragon, ladybug and more), making it easy. The real issue is choosing what theme and THEN what products! To learn more about Pink Poppy visit the blogTwitter and Facebook.

    We’re giving away the entire collection for your little people to foster their imaginations. To win, simply tell us: what is your child’s favourite game using their imagination?

    Terms and conditions: The Pink Poppy competition will be judged on creativity and originality. The competition opens Saturday, September 15, 2012 at 1pm AEST and closes on Monday, October 1, 2012 at 7.30pm AEST. One entry per person. Australian entries only. There is one prize winner. The winner will be notified via email and name published here. Entries remain the property of Three Li’l Princesses and may be republished.

    If you would like to learn about more of our giveaways, make sure you sign up to our eNewsletters. You’ll also find more giveaways in the Aussie Giveaway Linkup.

    DISCLAIMER: I received all the item above to try with the girls. I have not been paid to write this post. All opinions expressed are purely my own.

    *Not her real name

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