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  • Grateful for the moment things go wrong

    Grateful for the moment things go wrong

    THIS week’s Grateful For post was all planned out in my head. It was going to be an absolutely cracking read – as always. However, something happened last minute today that made me use the word “grateful’’ in a sentence. So I’m posting about that instead.

    OK, let’s start from the beginning:

    End of June: Ella’s child health nurse played some fun eye games with Ella before dropping the bomb – Ella was slightly vision impaired in her left eye. Probably not worth a whole post, but that’s what you got.

    August 4: We were given a referral to a specialist, who happened to be on holidays. So we got his registrar. After the saddest face I’ve seen on Ella in a while after having drops and bright lights flashed in her eyes, we were told the news I’d been dreading – Ella would need glasses.

    August 10: Finally got around to getting her to the optometrist to choose what were going to be “pink glasses like Rhapsody from The Fairies’’. I had fears it would end up looking more like Esme Watson from A Country Practise. However, I couldn’t find the prescription. I swear, it wasn’t me. Like a kid who lost her homework, I had to call for another. I mustered up the courage, only to be told that (for reasons I won’t go into), Ella would need to be retested. *sigh*

    August 17: The female specialist revealed Ella was slightly long sighted in her left eye. OK, a little more information is good. With these results, the senior specialist then came in and said he’d like to see her himself two days later. OK, should I now be worried?

    Yesterday: We played doctors and nurses, putting “raindrops’’ (Ella’s term) in patient Ella’s eyes for much of the day (there’s nothing like a bit of role playing to make the real task easier). That night I scored the wishbone from the chicken at dinner. “What’s your wish, Mum?’’ Ella asked. “I can’t tell, or it won’t come true,’’ I said.

    Today: After successfully getting the “raindrops’’ in both eyes and making it to the specialist without too much panic, 10 minutes later he announces my wishbone wish had come true: “Ella doesn’t need glasses’’. What? Seriously? I have been through all that and now… nothing? More correctly, we had the choice to give her glasses and see if it improved the slight prescription she has or do nothing. After 90 seconds of silence, he then said: “I don’t think we’ll worry about glasses.’’ Ahhhhh, such relief…..

    She will have to return in December for another check up (will keep you posted) but for now, at least, it seems glasses – and the Esme Watson look – are not a part of her life.

    So, the moral of this story is that sometimes when things go wrong they can actually turn out to be something you are truly grateful for.

    I’m joining with  Maxabella Loves to share what I’m grateful for.

  • I’m grateful for arachnophobes

    I’m grateful for arachnophobes

    two sisters cuddling
    Princess Ella and Baby Holly cuddling

    This week I’m grateful for:

    • My arachnophobe husband taking care of the particularly large spider in the bathroom this week, even if it did mean there were lots of jazz hands and Tassie two-step moves from him in the process.
    • One little girl getting the giggles in the bath tonight and setting off the other one. Which, of course, then led to me getting the giggles. I love our little two-child family.
    • It’s lovely when grandparents buy the girls raffle tickets, even if the first prize is a defensive driving course and second prize a trailer load of wood.

    I’m joining with  Maxabella Loves to share what I’m grateful for.


  • I’m grateful for chocolate… again

    I’m grateful for chocolate… again

    child's face with letters
    Ella will soon be wearing glasses – not stickers!

    This week I’m grateful for:

    • Hubby buying me a box of Cadbury’s Favourites to cheer me up which, in turn, was handy in inspiring the start of this post. Without the Turkish Delight, Cherry Ripe and Flake, this may well have been a blank page.
    • Realising the moment that made me sad this week was actually something I should be grateful for. One of my fears was realised yesterday, when we were told our beautiful Princess Ella would need to wear glasses. At this stage, it’s only a temporary measure and she may well be rid of them within two years. I was going to dedicate a whole post to this. I was going to write about how I shed a tear after being told. About how it brought back such awful memories for me. But, I’m going to instead look at the positives. In reality, if this is the worst I have to deal with, we’re doing pretty OK.
    • World Breastfeeding Week meaning I can fully celebrate my weapons of mass lactation. Boobie juices all round.

    I’m joining with  Maxabella Loves to share what I’m grateful for.

  • I’m grateful for tissues

    I’m grateful for tissues

    Starting school
    Ella is relieved to know they will have tissues at “big school''

    This week I’m grateful for:

    • Tissues. Since Princess Ella learnt she would be starting pre-kindy later this year, she’s been obsessed with asking if they’ll have tissues. Despite reassuring her that, yes, the school has tissues, she would reignite the conversation every couple of weeks. Finally, on Tuesday, we had our interview with the principal and she got to sit and chat with the teacher. After leaving her in the room with the teacher while we toured the school, we returned to find her with a tissue in her hand. The teacher responded with: “She said she was a bit snuffly and needed a tissue.’’
    • Publicity. My Working with PR post got picked up by PRNewswire this week. Sorry, just had to share.
    • A healthy future. We don’t often listen to the radio, but coming home from childcare the other night we caught the song Marry You by Bruno Mars. Ella piped up with: “I’m going to marry Jack (not his real name).’’ Surprised, at her choice in childcare friends, I asked her if they would be living together. “Yes,’’ she said, cheerfully. “And who will do the cooking?’’ I asked. “Me’’, she said. “And what will you cook?’’ “Soup and vegetables,’’ was her response. Well, at least they’ll be eating healthy.

    I’m joining with  Maxabella Loves to share what I’m grateful for.

  • I’m grateful for blogging and bloggers

    I’m grateful for blogging and bloggers

    My travelling companion

    This week I’m grateful for:

    • Guest posting on Tina Gray {Dot} Me with a letter to my 16-year-old self yesterday. It was a post inspired by a letter Wildlife Warrior Terri Irwin wrote in the Australian Women’s Weekly. Tina was one of the first Aussie bloggers I stumbled across when I first discovered the mummy blogosphere. So, you can imagine how thrilled I was that on the day I had the chance to guest post for her, I was also blessed to meet her in real life.
    • So, that brings me to my next point: Baby Holly and I meeting Mrs Marsh (remember the Colgate lady?) and bloggers at a Colgate bloggers brunch in Sydney yesterday. Surprisingly, these bloggers weren’t hairy, middle aged men posing as women. They were real mums. With real stories to tell. Due to time constraints (just imagine a room full of women all talking kids’ teeth, Twitter and blogging), I only gave an abridged version of my talk on how to grow your blog through building trust with your readers. However, my full notes are coming. Stay tuned…
    • Lastly I was fortunate enough to stay with the incredibly inspiring Louisa from Everything Is Edible and Veronica from Sleepless Nights in the sublime Fraser Suites overlooking a stunning view of Sydney (even despite the city experiencing its wettest three days in 60 years). There’ll be more on all that later. However, the real highlight was coming home to Princess Ella and The Bloke in the Shed. Oh, how I missed them. They even had a welcome home box of Cadbury chocolates and a card for me. Although, when I asked three-year-old Ella: “did you miss mummy?’’ she replied with a rather frank: “No.’’. Then laughed a very wicked laugh.

    I’m joining with Baby Mac to share what I’m grateful for.

  • I’m grateful for sometimes food

    I’m grateful for sometimes food

    This week I’m grateful for:

    • Three-year-old Ella reminding me that after toast, an apple, mandarin and rice cake, it was really time for some “sometimes’’ food. Apparently, cake or a biscuit would do. Yes, thanks Sesame Street. (Note; we ended up going a choc chip cookie).
    • Two-plus hours in a hairdresser’s chair to get rid of the “grey highlights’’, get a head massage and not be asked for food, nappy changes or to blow someone’s snotils (aka, nostrils). OK, so it hasn’t happened just yet, but I’ll be grateful for that moment in the morning.
    • Baby Holly now full-on crawling. She sets her sights on something she wants (usually food or Dad’s beer), crawls flat out to get it, then ends up nose diving into the carpet because her arms can’t keep up with her legs. Too cute!

    I’m joining with  Maxabella Loves to share what I’m grateful for.