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  • What the heck are stage presents?

    What the heck are stage presents?

    Kellie O'Brien Three Li'l PrincessesPrincess Ella and I are very similar – apart from the fact I have great hair. We bond over singing, dancing, drawing, music, craft and preening my great hair.

    Only yesterday we spent the afternoon making special letters for each of the kids at childcare she won’t see again after this week. Tomorrow marks the last day of childcare before she graduates to “big girl school’’.

    However, there’s one little thing that is fast becoming “our special bonding moment’’. The one hour-long block that is just for us to talk about the things that connect us most. It’s Young Talent Time and the singing and dancing.

    Ella is a 7pm to bed person, but on Sundays I’ve been allowing her to stay up until 7.30pm. We talk about what performances we liked best, who we thought should have won, how good (or bad) the singing was and why the dancing worked (or didn’t). I try to encourage her to look at the negatives of a performance constructively – rather than just “that was terrible, Mum’’.

    It’s also been a chance to share some of my (limited) singing and dancing knowledge from years of lessons. Like when the rock guitarist performed on Sunday, I was trying to explain to her about “stage presence’’. “But where are the presents, Mum?’’ Failed on that one.

    Then, when we were marvelling at the YTT team’s performance of Beyonce’s Halo, her only reaction at the end was: “The sky is green? And the ground is blue? What? That’s like Upsey Down Town, Mum. That’s silly.’’ Upsey Down Town being a popular Play School song.

    The last was again during the rock guitar performance, where host Rob Mills introduces her performance by saying “she’ll rock your socks off’’. Ella’s response: “But where is she going to put them?’’ After a long and detailed explanation of what “rock your socks off’’ means, she asked: “Can I rock my socks off with my recorder?’’ Eat your heart, darling.

    What’s your special bonding moment with your children?

  • WIN: Aussie Giveaway Linkup #35

    WIN: Aussie Giveaway Linkup #35

    THE Bloke in The Shed and I had a rare “date’’ during the week. We’re all picking ourselves up off the floor after making that happen. Anyway, we headed to Devonport’s Cmax Cinemas and saw the Australian movie A Few Best Men, starring the delicious Xavier Samuel.

    Seriously, if you’re after a bit of silliness, with a dash of romance, then this is well worth seeing. Fabulous cast, stunning cinematography, extremely predictable script, but utterly hilarious.

    Although, still getting over the shock of seeing Olivia Newton-John snort coke. I always wondered what become of her after she put on that black leather suit in Grease. Pfft, what a wasted talented.

    Before you delve in to this week’s giveaways, take a peek at the movie here.

    What movie have you watched lately?

    If you’re a blogger or business wanting to take part in the Aussie Giveaway Linkup:

    1. Only link directly to the giveaway post/s and include the prize and end date in the linky tool below. Link each giveaway separately. If you need to delete it, hover over your link, wait until the red “x’’ appears and click.
    2. Giveaways must be open to Australian residents.
    3. Grab the button to add to your post.
    4. A new list is added each Sunday so bloggers need to add their links weekly.
    5. Start entering the giveaways! Entry is at your own risk. We do not take responsibility for unfulfilled prizes or a blogger/business not abiding by their own terms and conditions.




    Aussie Giveaway Linky
    Hosted by Three Lil Princesses



  • Back to school review and giveaway

    Back to school review and giveaway

    In one week, Princess Ella will start kindergarten – or, more correctly, big girl school. Since she began pre-kindy in October, I’ve been asked more times than I can count how I’m coping. Am I OK? Will there be tears? There were even tissues in the school book pack.

    For the most part, I’ve been OK. There were a few twinges picking up school books this week, knowing my little girl has grown up. Funny how it feels like only yesterday I was worried about how on earth I was ever going to get a onesie on to her tiny body. She’s still tiny, but oh so grown up.

    School

    We’ve been blessed that nearly half her class is made up of children from her childcare group. So, in effect, it’s like going to childcare – just in a new building.

    What I am worried about are the silly things, like: what if her school clothes don’t fit her on school morning? What on earth do you put in school lunch boxes? What if she doesn’t sleep well the night before, becomes overtired and turns into a feral child for her first day? That one’s probably the most likely.

    Some companies have kindly helped us in our quest to start school and are willing to help you too (even if school has already started for you):

    Nature’s Own Omega Delight gift pack:

    Natures Own Omega Delight

    Living in an island state, we are big fish eaters. So it was hardly surprising to hear Tasmania was one of the state’s to lead the nation in serving their children fish at least once a week. However, like everyone, it’s probably not enough. Do fish fingers count?

    We were provided with some Nature’s Own Omega Delight ($21.95) this week and I was a little sceptical of whether Ella would like it. It’s deemed a good source of Omega-3 essential fatty acids, with the taste and texture of a smoothie. I asked Ella: “So, what is your opinion on the Nature’s Own Omega Delight Cirtrus Blast flavour?’’ Ella: “Yum!’’. “Hmm, anything else you’d like to add?’’ “It tastes like a milkshake,’’ she said. Clearly, one clever child.

    Most of us now know the importance of Omega-3 fatty acids in helping brain development and it’s something I’ve long been concerned about, especially in these crucial first years of life. Omega Delight comes in three different flavours: Pineapple, Citrus Blast and Mango Peach. Suggestions for consuming it include: on its own, in a drink or as a cereal topping. As an added bonus, it doesn’t contain any sugar, lactose, dairy or gluten. That sugar part is a big plus for me.

    For more information, visit Nature’s Own.

    Bright Star Kids Labels for Kids:

    Bright Star Kids

    We’d reviewed the Bright Star Kids wall stickers before, so we quite keen to see what the Bright Star Kids’ Labels for Kids were like. While the real test will come in the wear, within the Preschool and Daycare Label Kit I like how the name labels come in various sizes for different items and the iron on clothing labels have simple instructions (nothing complicated there).

    The school shoes are super cute, designed as little feet, complete with toenails. We chose pretty pink butterflies for the design and received a generous supply of labels that will do us well throughout the year. A warning: choosing just one design is pretty tough, due to the enormity of the range.

    The big appeal for me is the stick on labels are microwave, freezer and dishwasher safe, which makes them ideal for lunchboxes and drink bottles. 

    There are how-to videos at www.brightstarkids.com.au

    Budons Stationery gift pack:

    Budons stationery

    Budons is a rather cool kids’ stationery collection, that’s likely of more appeal to the pre-teens. Ella seemed to see the appeal in them though. The pencil case ($12.99) cleverly organises pencils to avoid having to scramble through what are usually loose pencils in the bottom of a case.

    The exterior has been well decorated (and redecorated) with Budons click-on characters ($1.49) – the Princess one her favourite. What appeals for me is being able to swap, collect and decorate books, bags and pencil cases with the Budons, as opposed to messy stickers. Oh, how I despise stickers? She also received a scratch and sniff notebook.

    It’s a cute concept and certainly one parents would approve of as it embraces different moods and personality types. They’re just a little funky (which is probably not the cool lingo to use anymore).

    Available at Target, Howards Storage World, Officeworks, newsagencies and other retailers.

    For the chance to win our $200 Back to School Competition, including:

    • a Nature’s Own Omega Delight gift pack (5 bottles),
    • Bright Star Kids Preschool and Daycare Label Kit
    • Budons stationery pack (pencil case, 3 click-on characters and scratch n sniff notebook)

    And runner up:

    • Bright Star Kids Preschool and Daycare Label Kit

    tell us in the form below: your tip for getting children organised for back to school.


    DISCLOSURE: We received a bottle of Nature’s Own Omega Delight, Budons stationery and Bright Star Kids Preschool and Daycare Label pack. All opinions expressed are our own. Terms and conditions: The Back to School competition will be judged on creativity and originality. The total prize value is about $200. The competition opens Saturday, February 4, 2012 at 7am AEST and closes on Sunday, February 12, 2012 at 7.30pm AEST. One entry per person. Australian entries only. There is one first prize to be won and a runner up prize. The winners will be notified via email and name published here. Entries remain the property of Three Li’l Princesses and may be republished.

     

  • The Shed: A strange man just played with my bits

    The Shed: A strange man just played with my bits

    tennis balls in hand

    By The Bloke in The Shed

    It isn’t every day I let a strange man play with my bits. This day was not any day though and, strictly speaking, he was a doctor.

    The time had come for my first medical appointment to ensure no further princesses or princes were added to our household. Here I was with Princess Kel by my side talking to a man about… well, you know… “The Snip’’.

    The urologist opened with the line “well, there’s only one reason I see a fit, young bloke like you and his wife …’’. Yep, my sperm should be preparing for a road block.

    I’m not sure what I expected, but I was a little surprised when our doctor started using Aussie terms I hadn’t heard or used since high school to describe the process. Did he just say “balls’’?

    The most awkward bit came when he said “well, I’ll have to have a bit of a look down there’’. Scene: Kel sitting in same room behind a curtain while someone else fondles “the crown jewels’’. Weirdly, that was the part Princess Kel had the most questions about.

     

    Kel and I had made the decision some time ago that I’d have a vasectomy after the birth of our second child. Seriously, I have been surprised at the negative reaction it’s received from some males. Things like: “What if you want to have more kids?”, “What if you get divorced?”, “You know it’s hard to reverse?’’, “You know Kellie could have a new device inserted which would last for a couple of years?’’etc. The last question actually came from someone in the medical profession.

    Frankly, I’ve been shocked by all this. But I guess blokes are a little sensitive and perhaps a little stupidly protective about that whole area.

    Me? Less so. Thanks to a reluctance of my “little pals” to drop, I have some horrific memories of several operations as a kid – picture trying to stretch a shoelace with your delicates attached and you’ll get a hint of what I went through. Hence, I consider myself lucky to have fathered children at all and am very content with what life has presented me.

    Girls and bubbles

    The way I figure it is, I watched my wife suffer two troublesome pregnancies. If this makes our lives a little easier, then it’s the least I can do. I realise that the procedure is final and is incredibly hard to reverse. Fine with that. As I said, I consider myself lucky.

    Our GP delivered some sound advice when he told us not to rush into it and leave it at least a year after the birth of Li’l Holly. Let’s face it, with a tired, breastfeeding wife, it’s not often during that time there is an issue in any case.

    Yet, 16 months on, neither Kel nor I thought differently, but we did appreciate that time and space to reaffirm our decision. So, the operation is booked.

    Why blog about it? Well, it just might just help someone out there. And besides, if your wife has been in the same room while a bloke fondles your balls, there is not much dignity left to be had.

    If you have any questions about the process to this point or personal experiences let us know. Or feel free to share your experiences or reasons for your or your partner having “the snip’’.

    Image credit.

  • WIN: Aussie Giveaway Linkup #34

    WIN: Aussie Giveaway Linkup #34

    This photo was taken while on the way to the library to pick up a book on social media this week.

    Facebook You Like This car sticker

    What will they think of next? Stick figure car stickers for every member of the family? Heaven help us if that ever happens.

    And now I’ve got that out of my system, it’s giveaway time. The same rules apply as always – click the links and start entering if you’re a reader.

    If you’re a blogger or business wanting to take part in the Aussie Giveaway Linkup:

    1. Only link directly to the giveaway post/s and include the prize and end date in the linky tool below. Link each giveaway separately. If you need to delete it, hover over your link, wait until the red “x’’ appears and click.
    2. Giveaways must be open to Australian residents.
    3. Grab the button to add to your post.
    4. A new list is added each Sunday so bloggers need to add their links weekly.
    5. Start entering the giveaways! Entry is at your own risk. We do not take responsibility for unfulfilled prizes or a blogger/business not abiding by their own terms and conditions.


    Aussie Giveaway Linky Hosted by Three Lil Princesses
    Aussie Giveaway Linky Hosted by Three Lil Princesses

  • When a princess loses her fairytale ending

    When a princess loses her fairytale ending

    Family bedtime reading is starting to become a little lacklustre for Princess Ella. The stories that are fully engaging Li’l Holly – Where is the Green Sheep? and Spot Goes to the Farm – are leaving Ella wanting more. So, to help with her development, we’ve begun reading a “big girl book’’ after Holly is asleep. For the moment, it’s this book:

    My Treasury of Fairytales

    My Treasury of Fairytales. It’s full of longer fairytale reads, which are more focused on the story and less on the images. Although, the illustrations are quite incredible. We first cottoned onto these books with the My Nursery Rhymes Book.

    My Nursery Rhymes Collection

    Her favourite from the fairytale book is Jack and the Beanstalk, which I’ve now read about 738,469 times. I think it has something to do with the “Fe Fi Fo Fum’’ rhyme, despite the fact it’s about grinding bones to make bread. She probably now believes that’s how you make bread, just like she believes breastfeeding mums provide us with cartons of boobie juice for our Sultana Buds.

    I tend to try and push her towards the more harmless Cinderella, The Ugly Ducking and Sleeping Beauty. Although, the latter has garnered questions about whether Sleeping Beauty would die if a prince didn’t kiss her.

    Then there’s Hansel and Gretel. As we were reading it the other night, an alarm bell went off in my head: “stop reading. This is going to give her nightmares’’. But for some ridiculously stupid reason, I continued. I have no idea what that reason was, by the way.

    reading a book

    In the car the next day, Ella piped up with: “Do you know what I’m thinking, Mum?’’. I could have answered with “why does Superman stop bullets with his chest but duck when the gun is thrown at him?’’, but I didn’t. Prompting her to continue, she said: “I was thinking how you went away and left me and I was really sad and I cried. And I was scared you weren’t going to come back.’’

    Part of this story stems from taking her li’l sister away to Adelaide for a night for a bloggers brunch months earlier. But I think it was mainly prompted by Hansel and Gretel’s awful stepmother.

    The clincher though came that night, when she woke at 1am crying. She was scared and didn’t want to be left alone. Five minutes later I was squished into a single bed with someone more akin to the main character out of the Princess and the Pea for all the wriggling that was going on.

    We now no longer read Hansel and Gretel around here.

    Are there fairytales you avoid with your children? Has your child been affected by a so-called child friendly story?